Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Goal #10 - Sort of Check

I really wanted to be able to roll from lying flat on my back without any assistance or devices, but it just hasn't happened. However, I have learned to roll to one side with the assistance of a bed rail or a bed ladder. Although its not exactly what I wanted, being able to do this much helps me get that much closer to sleeping in a regular bed.  It's much better than no rolling at all!

Goal #6 - Check

While I did need help reaching a few things up on those big tall for people who stand shelves, I was able to do the cutting, peeling, stirring, and everything else to make a big crock pot of stew. I've also made chicken parmesean, tortellini soup, and grilled cheese. I know it's not much but all that preparation really takes it out of me. It was so nice though. I've developed a real love for cooking and it's probably one thing I miss the most. I felt proud and I was excited that my family could eat something I fixed. Hopefully there is only more to come!

Goal #17 - Check

Since almost three years ago (crazy right!?) I have been overwhelmed by people's love and kindness. We have had Christmas done for us in an overwhelming way, 12 days of Christmas, gifts for the boys, meals brought in abundance, help so my mom could continue to work, and really a never ending list of service. I've wanted to give back, but I wasn't sure how I could. Well it's nothing elaborate, but I've tried to help where I could. I've made a few meals for people, I've donated clothes, and I have tried to share what I had and wasn't using. While these are definitely nothing very grand or marvelous, they were big for me. I hope I can continue to look and find more opportunities to serve.  I think it's a great thing to teach my children.

Goal #11 - Check

Going away for a vacation was definitely something I think my whole family was nervous for. Going anywhere more than my house and my brothers house, which are adapted to what I need, was scary. We decided to go for it though. We ventured to California for Thanksgiving. It was a short trip but we were able to spend time with family and make a trip to Six Flags (which will always be known as Marine World to me) to see the animals. There definitely wasn't enough time to see everyone I wanted (Aunt Ressa and Jennifer) but now we know it can be done. I'm hoping next summer we can make the trip again with more time. I loved my California trips as a kid and I hope my kids can learn to look forward to them as well. I miss my California family.

Goal #13 - Check

It may seem like a silly goal, but it was something I hadn't been able to experience. The weekend after I got my van we went to McDonald's. Jack was so excited that we got to "go in and stay" and even more excited he got to play in the toy. It was nice to get away with the family, without all the hassle of two vehicles. It's nice that these outings are much easier and can be done without extra thought and planning.  It makes life more bearable to get out of the house more often.

Goal #9 - Check

While I do not have a regular bed in my room, I did spend a few nights in one while we were in California. It was definitely much harder than my hospital bed but it was nice to know it can be done. I hope that soon I will be able to get rid of my hospital bed and have a regular bed, big enough for me and those occasional middle of the night visitors.  I look forward to a more typical bedroom, minus medical equipment.

Goal #3 - Check

I'm driving. I'm pretty sure there's no need for you to be scared anymore. I've been practicing a lot and I even drove from Blackfoot to Boise. I'm not going to lie, I still get a little anxious in town with everyone cruising past me, but I'm getting better. I've even ventured out by myself to a Relief Society dinner. I really should drive more, but I'm getting better and I'm sure driving more will soon be happening and I will wish I could drive less. Yay!